Everyone deserves to enjoy a pleasurable and fulfilling sex life and that includes you.
While research suggests that sexual dysfunction is common (43 percent of women and 31 percent of men report some degree of difficulty), when you add in emotional issues like shame and guilt surrounding what a person finds arousing or appealing, those numbers get much higher. Still, of all the emotional and physical issues people experience in life, sexual issues are the one topic that many people are hesitant to discuss with professionals or even loved ones for that matter. It’s also true that Hypnotherapy and NLP can be very effective tools at helping both men and women resolve most of their non-physiological related performance and emotional issues surrounding their sexual experiences.
Of course, there are a number of physiological conditions that can affect a person’s sexual performance. These include diabetes, heart and vascular (blood vessel) disease, neurological disorders, hormonal imbalances, chronic diseases such as kidney or liver failure, and alcoholism and drug abuse. In addition, the side effects of some medications, including some antidepressant drugs, can affect a person’s sexual function. So, men who are suffering from symptoms of erectile dysfunction and men and women who feel their sexual drive or performance isn’t what they want it to be, should always be checked by a physician first to make sure there are no physiological issues needing attention. Assuming the body checks out alright, then it all comes down to the unconscious (subconscious) mind and its affect upon one’s sexual experiences.
It’s a fact that the most powerful and important sex organ in your body is your brain. It’s also a fact that it’s the unconscious part of your mind that controls all your emotions and most of your behaviors. And it’s also true that most people don’t know how to control the most powerful part of their own mind… that being the unconscious part. Hypnotherapy and NLP can be the key to resolving emotional conflicts and performance based issues.
Men – Generally speaking, men’s sexual issues are more performance oriented than emotional based which is interesting since erections and orgasms are very much a product of the unconscious mind and therefore significantly affected by thoughts and emotions.
- Can Hypnotherapy and NLP help me get and maintain erections more easily?
- Can Hypnotherapy and NLP help me avoid premature ejaculation?
- Can Hypnotherapy and NLP help me become more comfortable with my sexual desires and fantasies and discussing them with my lover?
Women – Starting at birth and continuing throughout her life, every woman is developing a unique “sexual story” influenced by culture, gender, family of origin, and personal experiences. This “story” takes on the beliefs and meanings that she attributes to her sexuality. Women often struggle as they attempt to negotiate their personal “sexual stories” as they develop their own style of sexual communication and activity. Sometimes, her longings, desires and fantasies conflict with her cultural upbringing or other beliefs. This frequently leads to feelings of shame and guilt. These conflicts can prevent a woman from fully and freely experiencing and enjoying her unique sexuality. Her enjoyment of her sexuality and her interaction with her lover(s) is greatly enhanced as she resolves these conflicts naturally and comfortably. Another issue affecting far too many women’s sexuality is the lingering after-effects of childhood sexual trauma. I’m continually amazed at how effective Hypnotherapy and NLP can at resolving the effects of childhood trauma both whether emotional, physical or sexual very quickly and comfortably.
- Can Hypnotherapy and NLP help me become more comfortable and open with my desires and needs?
- Can Hypnotherapy and NLP help me rid myself of the shame and guilt I feel associated with my desires and fantasies?
- Can Hypnotherapy and NLP help me increase my desire for sex?
- Can Hypnotherapy and NLP help me overcome the effects of childhood sexual abuse?
The answer to each of these questions is very simply.. yes!
Heterosexuality vs Homosexuality
Even in today’s more inclusive and accepting society, both men and women often struggle as they struggle to resolve their sexual desires for members of their own gender. While Hypnotherapy and NLP can’t change the opinions and feelings of those around you, they can most certainly help you accept and even embrace your sexuality.
Inappropriate Sexual Behavior
While we support any sexual activity between consenting adults, occasionally, some people find themselves in trouble because they have sexual desires they struggle to control and, as a result, they impose them on others without their consent. This can create serious negative outcomes for everyone concerned. While, as always, results will vary, Hypnotherapy and NLP can be help a person control those urges or even eliminate them entirely.