No one can possibly “make you feel” any emotion whatsoever, because your emotions are only ever created in YOUR OWN MIND in response to INTERNAL BELIEFS you have about the external world and how your unconscious mind chooses to interpret the behaviors offered to you by others.
All the stuff around you is only ever (in your experience) your version of it.
If 100 people watch a movie together, they don’t all have the same experience of it… Yet what was presented to everyone was the exact same sensory information.
This is Empowerment 101. And the Fundamentals Start With This.
- Be “at cause” with your emotional results.
- Get curious about what drives your emotional choices.
- Discover the patterns behind your emotional responses.
- Seek out your strategies and structures because you are the one that built them! Then begin to change them to suit your personal goals and to improve your happiness.
It’s ironic how we missed this growing up and equally that there were so few adults around capable of teaching us this.
The good news is that it’s never to late to learn and never too late to begin reclaiming your own personal power. NLP and hypnotherapy is the best way I have found to accomplish this quickly and comfortably.
Thankfully, as people “get it” they often can’t wait to share the revelation with others so the word is spreading and things are changing… one person at a time.